Surfing Lessons
On that trip to Siargao, Philippines last September 2014, I thought that I would just be taking a photo beside a surf board or a surfer. Some of my friends have mocked me for not having plans of riding the board myself. Now, how can someone who cannot swim not be afraid of surfing? If I cannot even make myself stay afloat, how can I even think about standing on a board being pushed by a wave of water? I am hydrophobic! And have always thought of staying at the safe side of things. I am not a thrill seeker and I rarely go for the extremes. I’ve never envisioned myself as a daredevil.
Photo Ops
And so, yes, I did take photos standing and sitting beside a short board and of the surfers who have competed in the “2014 International Surfing Cup”. It was a one of a kind experience for me, to watch every one of them take turns riding and gliding with the tides. It was as if I literally had an inside joke with myself, when I started imagining myself doing the same. Well, I will always have the tourist in me and so I just decided to enjoy the company of my friends by trying out different food places and coffee shops in the area. Everybody was laid-back. It was a place for chilling and relaxing. It was a soothing, calming, and peaceful experience for me. And was exactly what I needed to keep the stresses of work at bay.
Then came our second day on the island. Two of my friends wanted to try surfing. One of them, like me, cannot swim either. But our excitement was building up.
We were introduced to our very reliable instructors, thanks to a friend who is a surfer dude himself. Mine was under the name “Longlife”, his real name was Neil. The very first thing that I did was warn him that I couldn’t swim. He gave me that reassuring laugh that I don’t need that skill at all. He said that as a beginner, I’ll be riding baby waves first. I had the long board, which was tied to my left leg (or was it the right?), to keep me afloat should I fall from it. He just told me to stay calm the whole time and to just pull the board via the leash back to me and climb back on it after every fall. He gave very simple yet clear instructions. Feeling excited and afraid at the same time, I told myself to listen to Longlife closely. After all, I want to live a long life.
Fist Surfing Experience
Our session lasted for an hour. I was able to stand on the board for about six to seven times. And for a first-timer like me, it was an accomplishment. Fear made me fall on my first few rides. I have even experienced colliding with another surfer chick on the water. That was so intense that it made me scream! Haha! What made me stand on the board was when Longlife told me that instructors actually mock each other, every time their student fails to get up. I wanted him to be proud of me. He always made a point to give me a tip after every ride. Then I started asking him what I did wrong and did right for each one. It was then that I ended up always standing on my last rides. He told me at the end of the hour that he was very proud of me, and I was very proud of myself, too.
I ended up having another one hour session in the morning of the next day before our flight back to Cebu. This time, I never fell off the board. I’ve learned how to come to a halt and sit on the board before paddling back to the waves. The only time I failed was when I ended up kneeling on an entire ride.
Laid-Back and So Chill
Surfing made me realize that:
1. You cannot tell yourself that you cannot do something without trying it out first.
2. Our fears limit our abilities and capabilities by thinking negatively about an endeavor.
3. Listening and following instructions are very important.
4. Trusting and believing in yourself is key to achieving a goal set before you.
5. It is not enough to try something once, you must get up after every failed attempt in life.
6. Balance is not easy but attainable.
7. We need to keep practicing to be able to master something.
8. And to enjoy every moment of the journey towards our destination. (In this case enjoying every ride whether I was falling from, standing, kneeling, or sitting on the board.)
Lost my on-the-board photos. My bad.
And all of these treasured lessons from the Island of Cloud 9, Siargao, will stay in my heart. I am doing my very best to give everything that I do my best shot. I’d love to surf again and again and again. In fact, I’ve tried doing it in Carmen, Cebu with one of the founders of the Cebu surfing community. Well, every shore would be different from the other. I had to struggle through the spiky/thorny rocks in that shallow area. Falling on them and scratching my skin was scarier than falling onto deep waters. Haha. And nope, my surfing journey does not end here. I’ll keep riding and gliding with the waves of life, and enjoying them, too!
Joined a Surf Camp the year after. My last surf trip.
Want to join me on my next surf trip? It’s been a while…
How much desire to return to this way of life, to enjoy the pleasures of life and be free!
I’ve never done this before but would love to. When I travel to a location where surfing is a possibility (my hometown in Wisconsin is not one of them) I’m definitely giving it a try!
Try is the key of success, many times we feel that I can’t do this but when we try than success… You have shared the ” Surfing made me realize that” is very Inspiring for everyone…
Love all the lessons you’ve learned in surfing! Amazing how much we learn everyday!
I would love to learn Surfing one day, it is such an awesome sport, so much fun. Spoon I hope.
I didn’t know that Carmen also has a surfing spot. Siargao is probably one of the best here in the PH, but I also would like to try that in Baler. PH has so much to offer, really.
There is one in Carmen but it’s very rocky and the waves are only good if there is a storm around somewhere. That is a tip coming from one of the founders of the surfing community here in Cebu. Too bad I deleted all of my photos in Carmen on the board. And I didn’t know that I did not have back up copies.
I’m so glad that in the end you decided to learn how to surf! I can imagine it is scary when you can’t swim!
I love reading your posts. The pictures are so beautiful there! Thanks for sharing.
Thank you very much! 🖤
You stood up! That’s awesome! It feels pretty awesome when you figure it out for the first time. I went to high school in Hawaii; I miss the surfing.
Yes! The best feeling in the world! 🖤
Surfing is one of my favorite thing to do–in my dreams
Love this! hopefully we can learn more new things this summer!
I admit that surfing or at least even trying, has always intrigued me. But I don’t think I’m very good at xD
Try it at least once.
I’ve always thought surfing sounded like fun, but also a little scary. It’s great that you’ve learned some great lessons!
Now that’s a fun sport! I never tried, but this makes me want to.
Good for you for pushing yourself and achieving even more than you thought you would! And hopefully you have less fear of water too!
Looks like you had a great experience learning how to surf my husband used to surf but I’m a little bit scared to learn.
I love the things you’ve realized from learning to surf!
I tried it when i was younger, but couldn’t figure out how to stand up while out on the water. I really want to try again!
Please, do. 🖤
You should be proud of your self, that is a great achievement. Overcoming your fear is the biggest battle and you did it. Well done.
Thanks a lot!!🖤
Surfing lessons would be something my son would love. He wants to try surfing
How fun! I have always been too scared to give surfing a try so I am impressed with your bravery!
Another one for the book after the lockdown in Manila. Surprisingly this site will give you a lot to have soon. Thanks for your post. I love surfing also.
I have always wanted to learn to surf! Your photos and the places you have visited as beautiful! I am inspired to give this a shot next time I’m near the ocean!
Try it out! So much fun! 🖤
Go for it!
I love to watch surfing. But scare to try it. It seems like you had fun while learning
my husband will love to visit cloud 9 and take surfing lesson. he is such a beach lover
I’d love to learn to surf but we don’t have the waves here sadly. Looking out at the weather we’re having, it would be the perfect time for it too!
Look like it was a wonderful vacation with friends, I’ve also always enjoyed watching professional surfers glide with the waves, really incredible what they do.
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Fabulous pictures! You guys look like you had too much fun! Take me with you next time!
Wow, it must’ve been very interesting to try surfing when you can’t swim!
I couldn’t believe that it was possible. My instructor, a local, just laughed at me when I pointed that out. Haha.
I love this and I love that you shared your lessons from it all. You’re right, it’s easy to just say that we can’t do something, but unless we give it an honest attempt, how do we know???
Because there’s only one way to find out.
My daughter stayed at a surf camp and learned to surf in Panama. She became quite good!
I need to surf more. And probably start having swimming lessons so I can go for long waves! Haha.
My eldest daughter and my husband had surfing lessons in baler when we were there last November. I wasn’t able to try it because I looked after my youngest.
I hope you can try it out next time.
This looks super fun!
Surfing is definitely on my list of things to learn. I will do it maybe in 2021.
Go for it!
How much I miss surfing, rafting. I really miss old and happy days of my life.
I took surfing lessons a few years ago and it was a lot of fun. I would do it again!
I really enjoy watching people surf.
I hope one day I will learn how to do so.
So fun I’ve always wanted to try
I’ve always wanted to learn to surf but I always get nervous of falling in when there’s a big wave, haha! x
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Surfing is such an amazing sport with a lot of risks. I’m all for watching people do that one. Haha.
I don’t even know how to swim. It was on my top of the list. First thing I will learn after the lockdown.
I would LOVE to take surfing lessons… you’re so lucky!
Go ahead and just do it. 🖤